Maintaining an Online Relationship with Asian Women

An online date can be just as romantic as a regular one.

There’s a certain bit of drawback to an online relationship. The main one being the digital nature of the whole thing. Because it’s all on the internet, things, like going out together and being in the same room as one another, go right out the window. Which can be hard for people starting a long distance relationship.

Perhaps the biggest roadblock in a long-distance relationship is the distance. It’s said the absence is supposed to make hearts grow fonder, but the lack of physical presence can have the exact opposite effect. Not being present in the same room as their partner can cause people to become a little disillusioned with the relationship.

But there’s more than one way to keep a spark alive even when there’s a not inconsiderable amount of distance between you and your partner. There’s a lot of types of online date options that two people can go on so that they can stay connected. It’s not unusual for a relationship to start on the internet and that same internet can help keep those two people together.

1. Communicate regularly
   The biggest way to keep a relationship alive in the face of almost overwhelming distance is to communicate regularly. Communication even over long distances is more than feasible.
   Technology has made such communication possible and not just possible, especially when you’re involved with an Asian woman. The internet has made such communication almost too easy. Two people with the same app and active internet connections can send messages and make calls as though they were in the same country.
   Technology allows couples to combat the biggest long distance relationship problem. Lack of communication, which can wreck a couple regardless of the distance.
2. Book club
   Book clubs are where groups of people read the same book and then they meet to discuss the book, the story, the themes, the characters, what they liked, and what they didn’t like. Book clubs are great social activities for groups of friends.
   But just because it’s usually something that friends do together doesn’t mean that it can’t be adapted for a romantic couple. You and your partner can read the same book and then discuss through video chatting.
   You’ll probably be video chatting often anyway, so reading the same book gives you a ready conversation topic, which can help with the lulls in the conversation and the awkward silences. Plus, it can help your Asian partner improve her English. In turn, if she recommends a book from her country, you might also learn a new language.
3. Eat dinner or any meal together
   Most people eat meals with their partners. It’s one of the staples of a romantic partnership, being able to sit down together and consume a meal together while either catching up with one another or not saying anything to one another because they’re at the point in their relationship where the silences are not at all awkward because they’ve been together for a good amount of time now and don’t need to constantly fill the space between them with noise.
   Now, in most cases, couples eat together at the same table. But a couple with some significant distance, as in the actual kind of distance and not the more insurmountable emotional variant, can also have a meal together thanks to video chatting. They can set their devices up on the table with their meal and eat.
   The meals don’t have to be the same; one partner can have their lunch while the other is having their breakfast. While food is important in general for things like nutrition and continued survival, in this case, it’s secondary to the company of the person with whom the meal is being enjoyed.
4. Send care packages
   There’s a bit of a cliche in dating, especially where carnivals are concerned and it’s a man winning a stuffed animal for his paramour in some display of strength or skill. But carnivals are really a factor in an online relationship, largely because there aren’t many carnivals on the internet. There are games and such, but there’s no actual carnival.
   So if you want to give your partner a little something, you’ll have to put together a care package.
   Putting together a care package isn’t about the material objects that go in the box. It’s about the thought and consideration that goes into making sure that those items are the exact kind of thing that the intended recipient needs. Asian women can be appreciative of a few thoughtful trinkets.
5. Be optimistic
   Long distance relationship statistics aren’t always the most encouraging thing in the world for couples who have to deal with distance. But they’re not the end all/be all of love. Love is a lot more than just numbers and statistics, after all. It’s about connection and connection sometimes beats the odds.
   Optimism may not seem like much, but there are times when having a positive attitude is all that you can do and sometimes, it’s enough.
6. See a movie
   Similar to an online book club, you can totally watch a movie or a series with your long-distance partner. Movies are usually released in theatres worldwide and streaming services don’t always region-lock their content, which means that it’s not entirely impossible for two people to watch the same movie or the same episodes of a television series and then meet up later over the internet to discuss the content that they have just consumed.
7. Take a trip
   Probably the best way to maintain relationships of a long-distance nature is to see one another. Taking trips to see one another is how many a couple renews their love until the time comes when they can live together in the same place and no longer have to deal with distance.

There’s a lot to navigate with an online relationship. But the thing about that kind of thing is that there’s a lot of people who are going through it. There’s also lots of people who have already gone through it and come out the other side with their hearts full and their hands raised in victory.

There’s no reason that you and your partner can’t be among those who get to win and be together after all that hardship. Just make sure to keep your love alive while you’re going through it.

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