Right Questions to Ask When Dating Asian Women

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Dating Asian women is unlike any other dating experience. With the obvious differences in your culture, dating an Asian woman can be quite tricky. While some rules of dating or dating etiquette in the West apply to dating in Asia as well, you cannot help but realize that there are things that could make or break your perfect Asian date.

Learn what to know when dating an Asian girl. If you want your Asian date to be successful, then you will need to know what questions are appropriate to ask Asian women and what questions are not. This is because of the cultural differences that you have between the two of you. What seems harmless to you might be offensive to her based on the culture that she grew up with.

To guide you accordingly, you can try and use the following questions during your date:

• “How was your day?”
  At the start of your date, it is important for you to know whether your Asian date is in a good mood or not. By asking her how her day was, you will be able to gauge her mood. If by chance she mentions that her day was not that good, see to it that you turn the situation around and that at the end of your date she will say that her day with you was the best.
• “What are your interests?”
  We date to get to know each other better. What better to start knowing her than by starting with her interests? By knowing her interests, you can also open new topics for a meaningful conversation. This will also give you a glimpse of who she is as a person.
• “What are your favorites?”
  Just like her interests, you will learn a lot about her when you know her favorites. Questions about her favorite color, favorite food, favorite genre of music, and the like can give you an idea of how to proceed with your conversation. This also gives you gift ideas should you want a long-term relationship with her.
• “What are you looking for in a man?”
  This is as straightforward as can be. Ask her what she wants in a man. By asking her this, you will know if you will be perfect for her or not. This will keep you from wasting your time with a woman who, in the end, doesn’t like someone like you after all. If in any case you like her but you do not have the qualities that she is looking for in a man, you can always change for the better and be the man that she needs.
• “Are you enjoying our date?”
  It is important for you to know whether or not she is enjoying your company. If she is enjoying your date, then you are definitely doing something right and should continue doing it. If not, then you need to find a way to keep her interested.

Questions That Should Never Come Up

If there are appropriate questions to ask, there will always be those that are not. These questions can be deal breakers and you should try to avoid them at all costs. Understanding Asian dating culture will give you an idea of what these questions are like. As previously stated, these questions may sound harmless to you but for Asian women, it can be offensive.

Here are 5 examples of questions that you need to avoid asking when dating Asian women:

• Anything related to religion
  It doesn’t have to be a specific question. As long as it has something to do with religion, do not ask her the question. Asking a question that is related to religion can only start an argument between you and your date should she have a different perspective than you. If you want to experience genuine Asian love, do not bring up anything that could potentially spark contrasting points of views.
• Politics
  Just like religion, politics should be set aside during a date. This is because you do not know what her point of view is on certain political aspects. You do not want your date to be spent arguing rather than one spent enjoying a meaningful conversation. Do remember that you asked her out on a date to get to know her as a person, not her political affiliation.
• Financial status
  It has been known that some women use online dating to elevate their financial status. While this may be true at times, it does not necessarily reflect every woman’s sentiment when looking for foreign men to marry. There are a lot of well-off women who want to find foreign men because they are not able to find their perfect match in the local dating scene. So if ever you are curious about her financial status, do not ask her that question. You might just ruin a date that would have led to a successful marriage.
• “Can we go to second base?”
  This is a sensitive question especially in Asia where women are known to be very meek and conservative. A simple kiss on the lips may suffice, but asking for second base may be insulting to her, especially when you are on your first or second date. If you play your cards right, that time will eventually come and it will be something that you both want.
• “What happened to the men in your past?”
  Do not ask her about her past. This is one of those inappropriate questions that should remain unsaid. The fact that she agreed to date you means that she has already accepted to forget her past. Different people deal with their past differently and who’s to say how hard it was for her to forget her past? Bringing it up will only open closed wounds and you could end up in an unnecessary misunderstanding.

With these questions in mind, always remember the cultural difference that you have with her. Be sensitive to the questions that you are planning to ask. If you unintentionally ask her an inappropriate question, things can go south really fast and that is something that you do not want to happen when dating Asian women.

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